Linlao, coming from Shaghai to Manila for a month is going to Boracay where her husband will join her. Yesterday, she bought her first bikini! I asked her to send her me those snaps and she turned red.
Im her host for her stay in Manil for last one month and saw bit on how chinese a woman thinks!
She wanted a masage and told her she wanted a guy or women. She acted coy yet asked me where to get a guy to massage!
She doesnt know how to cook. Her mother in law cooks for the family. That means if her husband eats out with her friends, then she wouldnt cook for Linda. Those days, Linda eats out alone. Actually, she doesnt like the cooking of her mother in law and said she eats out a lot with her friends. Her husband goes for trips two week long with his friends or sometimes with their son and gambles twice a week with her firneds. She said she didnt like gambling. Her son stays in a hostel but come home during the weekend.
The bonding seems to be weak yet its functioning.
Her husband like most of the chinese these days made lot of money in the stock market.
Being a populous nation, competition is intense and one wouldnt think twice to move ahead even if that means trampling someone else. A chinese has gone through oppression and harship over generations and hence cruety seems to come naturally to then.
She is close to forty, happy, content, competent .
She plan to retire at 50 and travel around a bit. Thats chinese policy by the way.
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