Shenna will turn seven this august. He is eagerly looking forward to it and planning for the gifts he wants.
We adore him. He is soft, careing, smart, does his Kumon, great in drawing, have varied interests, ask many questions, makes friends easily. Very playful, very lovable. Loves pulling Dona's leg and partners with me in that.
Yesterday, on Mother's day, he promised Dona three pans, large, medium and small. Also, she was offered a steamer as alternative!
But often we feel worried. When he was young, he used to just follow other kids. If they jumped, he would also jump and we could not see him lead, be him own person.
We were blessed with a marvelous teacher, Ms. Nat last year in his ECLC. We discussed it with her and this has stopped by the end of the year.
However, we dont see the urge to play for the ball, chasing it, grabbing it, goign for it, be it in soccer or basketball. He loves to play but mostly we find him busy chatting or being pedestrians. Linked to this, we find him wanting to win in the field like any kids his age would do or the way I was when I was his age.
He is very careful and I think scared to play tough. We are now thinking very actively how to help him develop the passion and thrust for winning in the field so that he can enjoy all the games and develop as a well rounded personality in his life.
We have see he does wonderful stuff if he tries. However, the trying doesnt come naturally to him. Left to himself, he would just do whatever he feel like and then get busy with cartoons, games, friends. However, if we can convince him then we have seen he can go ahead and perform.
We have to develop a plan to help him become a tougher guy.
We adore him. He is soft, careing, smart, does his Kumon, great in drawing, have varied interests, ask many questions, makes friends easily. Very playful, very lovable. Loves pulling Dona's leg and partners with me in that.
Yesterday, on Mother's day, he promised Dona three pans, large, medium and small. Also, she was offered a steamer as alternative!
But often we feel worried. When he was young, he used to just follow other kids. If they jumped, he would also jump and we could not see him lead, be him own person.
We were blessed with a marvelous teacher, Ms. Nat last year in his ECLC. We discussed it with her and this has stopped by the end of the year.
However, we dont see the urge to play for the ball, chasing it, grabbing it, goign for it, be it in soccer or basketball. He loves to play but mostly we find him busy chatting or being pedestrians. Linked to this, we find him wanting to win in the field like any kids his age would do or the way I was when I was his age.
He is very careful and I think scared to play tough. We are now thinking very actively how to help him develop the passion and thrust for winning in the field so that he can enjoy all the games and develop as a well rounded personality in his life.
We have see he does wonderful stuff if he tries. However, the trying doesnt come naturally to him. Left to himself, he would just do whatever he feel like and then get busy with cartoons, games, friends. However, if we can convince him then we have seen he can go ahead and perform.
We have to develop a plan to help him become a tougher guy.
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