Our days are like in school everyday. Only thing is no one prepares on how and when the critical learnings would come. More importantly, sometimes those learnings can hardly be used. It can neither be given to someone since often one need to learn though experience.
Few weeks back in one of the large gathering he said openly what everyone says in private. Everyone had a good laugh including the people to whom it was directed. Today, he came to me and said that he has been reprimanded for saying what he said. He lamented that we were urged to be open yet didnt appreciate when he was open.
Told him that that is life unfortunately. One got to be bit diplomatic, bit political to navigate one day at a time to accumulate enough goodwill to move ahead.
Is it right? Maynt be but then that is life.
About four months back we had booked tickets to Phuket but am told last friday that I would have business in Bangkok for which I could be required. So I wouldnt be able to go. I could still go but then there would be a price attached to it. Will I go? Nope. Thats life.
Like in a game of cards, we all get different cards and no one listens no matter how much we complain. We have to make strategy with what is given and do as best as we can. Its extremely difficult and we need sometimes to gather all the innerwill that we have got just to manage to remain sane.
He told he had a girl friend when he was just eight year old and they were a could till they were in University. He said he didnt know what happen afterwards. He but have married someone beautiful. Also probably strong since she travels international when would be travelling on business. Unlikly they can afford it but then still they do it. It doesnt occur to them to save for the sake of they beautiful two year old daughter. But then does it make sense not to do what heart wants for the sake of future that could be two decades away? I thing it is right, they thing it doesnt matter. That is life.
The ability to laugh and being postive are probably the important gifts we can give to our youngs.
Few weeks back in one of the large gathering he said openly what everyone says in private. Everyone had a good laugh including the people to whom it was directed. Today, he came to me and said that he has been reprimanded for saying what he said. He lamented that we were urged to be open yet didnt appreciate when he was open.
Told him that that is life unfortunately. One got to be bit diplomatic, bit political to navigate one day at a time to accumulate enough goodwill to move ahead.
Is it right? Maynt be but then that is life.
About four months back we had booked tickets to Phuket but am told last friday that I would have business in Bangkok for which I could be required. So I wouldnt be able to go. I could still go but then there would be a price attached to it. Will I go? Nope. Thats life.
Like in a game of cards, we all get different cards and no one listens no matter how much we complain. We have to make strategy with what is given and do as best as we can. Its extremely difficult and we need sometimes to gather all the innerwill that we have got just to manage to remain sane.
He told he had a girl friend when he was just eight year old and they were a could till they were in University. He said he didnt know what happen afterwards. He but have married someone beautiful. Also probably strong since she travels international when would be travelling on business. Unlikly they can afford it but then still they do it. It doesnt occur to them to save for the sake of they beautiful two year old daughter. But then does it make sense not to do what heart wants for the sake of future that could be two decades away? I thing it is right, they thing it doesnt matter. That is life.
The ability to laugh and being postive are probably the important gifts we can give to our youngs.
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